The Story
- Sonny's Dad
- Nov 23, 2021
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 5, 2023
When I was first told that Sarah was pregnant with Sonny did I think that in 2021 I'd be building a website to tell the truth around the parental alienation we'd have endured by Sarah and her parents?
The answer would be no to a website but yes to the parental alienation.
Why build a site?
The answer is simple. We as his family have been devastated by the effects of what Sarah and Margaret, in particular, did to our relationships with Sonny. Therefore our reputation needs to be honoured in line with the truth of why Sonny doesn't want to see his Dad and his paternal family.
What will the site detail?
Simply put, The Truth. This site will document everything as I remember it. It's the truth, our truth and will no doubt be painful and embarrassing for Sarah and Margaret to read but they know what they are responsible for and what they did.
The site will provide detail from all the court cases that I had to instruct against Sarah to the lies and the intent from the very beginning.
I'm sure Sonny has been asked many times about his Dad and his paternal family and we've always wondered what he tells people, this site will answer those questions.
Sonny will no doubt have friends and at a maturing age of 17 he might already have a girlfriend who will have parents and might also have brothers and sisters. One day he'll hopefully have children who will ask him...."Dad, where is my grandad"...all of the above will now be able to find those answers.
His maternal family will no longer be able to hide behind lies thus ensuring everyone interested in Sonny has the correct perspective and we in turn ensure our reputation as loving, caring decent family members will be enshrined.
We accepted long ago that Sonny doesn't want us and we realised that no matter how much money we threw at court cases he made a decision at 8 years old that he no longer wanted to see us.
Supported and enabled by Sarah and Margaret in making such a crucial decision in severing his life with his paternal family we were unable to speak to him again.
He never told us why but it'll be detailed on this site exactly what happened.
Sonny has gone, and there is nothing more we can do to change that but one thing will never change and that's how much we love him. We accept the damage caused by the parental alienation is deep rooted in Sonny. Sarah and Margaret ultimately achieved what they set out to achieve but we'll never believe that Sonny has benefited in anyway from the effects of alienation.
I'll ask them this question - "Do you really think it was in Sonny's interest's to force us out of his life, to not have a Dad, to not be surrounded by his paternal family who loved him just as much as you do?" In fact they don't need to answer us they can explain themselves to Sonny,
What child doesn't want a parent, grandparents, auntie and a cousin that loved and cared for him more than anything in the world, in our opinion none.
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