The Court, The Process, The Outcome
- Sonny's Dad
- Mar 21, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 5, 2023
I will begin to document the journey we took through the courts to establish and maintain contact with Sonny. This will be documented over several posts and broken down into various parts.
As Sonny's Dad I knew from the very first second that Sarah told me she was pregnant that we would end up in court. Did i think that by the time Sonny was 18 that he wouldn't have spoken to us for nearly 10 years, no I didn't but what happened at court came as no surprise in how Sarah and her family behaved,
What is a significant point in all these cases of parental alienation is this - "who took who to court?"
It's always the alienated parent - when was the last time anyone ever heard of a Mother forcing their child's to have contact with the child through the court? It doesn't happened. It's always the other way round and typically the Dad has to force the Mother into court and ask the court to force the mother to allow Dad to have contact with the child.
As was the case with me, I took Sarah to court twice to request that the court force her to stop being obstructive. On both occasion's the objective to my applications and tried tried her best to stop the process.
Twice she did that. I have to take her to court twice just so I could spend time with Sonny and twice she made every attempt to make my life and Sonny's life difficult.
That' all anyone needs to ask themselves - if he didn't care about Sonny why did he spend so much time and money in the courts to try and secure contact with him and why why did Sarah spend so much time and money to try and stop him.
What Dad who doesn't love and care for his son does that?
Sonny won't recall the first court process as he was a little baby so this will all be new information for him. He will the second time as he was, too some extent, involved. Obviously he only saw and heard one side of the story so this will give him a better insight into as to how hard I fought for him.
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